are coming. I like change sometimes. At other times I am change resistant.
Right now, I’m feeling change resistant and a little nervous.
For the next few years (beginning mid-May), XH will be stationed nearby, within a two hour drive from here. I would like to have a good co-parenting relationship that is healthy and positive for all involved, especially for the kids. I don’t know if it’s possible, though.
During the past seven or eight years (since before the divorce), there’s been no co-parenting. It’s just been me doing the parenting and XH jumping in and out of the kids’ lives at his convenience. I feel an icky, jumbled feeling in the pit of my stomach when I think about it, so I’ve been avoiding sharing for the last couple of weeks.
I don’t have high hopes, but am willing to keep an open mind. I will keep you posted.